I’m not a lesbian, my girlfriend is!
(p.s: this is my personal rant about my ‘hit & miss’ with my sexuality and attractions) Aaahhh!!! What have I done?! I have opened Pandora’s box and would definitely get some reactions to this statement alone and would also receive (unwanted) comments, but this is the truth- I’m not a lesbian but my girlfriend is. To even explain this to the many who have questioned my sexuality and attraction has become an energy draining, time consuming, quite frustrating and irritating moment(s). I have found myself in a “head nodding” game (to see how many times I nod when I disagree with an opinion without going all kung fu panda with them). This is often done with a smile (and a tonne of patience) of trying to understand the other person’s perspectives and simply listening (and slowly zoning out) to their explanation on my sexuality and ‘what I am’, ‘how it will be’ and it’s ‘just a phase’. Don’t get me started to even talk about my attractions and connections to beau