Living and Loving Intentionally- reflection
Living and Loving intentionally is not something i dreamt up doing quite immediately, nor is it an empty mantra (saying it constantly but not actually 'doing' it). To live and love intentionally was a realisation of mine few years ago when a long term relationship with the self (yes with the self) didn't go as planned. I have spent so much of me, my energy, my heart, tears and money in making others happy that i forgot to love and live- to really love and live. Have you ever thought about doing this? its quite exhilarating i tell you! Anyways after a breakup of my longest relationship, i realised i was unrecognizable. I honestly had no idea who i was. I stopped reading my favourite books, i stopped writing what i was passionate about, i stopped cooking for myself, i stopped buying and indulging in things that i enjoyed and i stopped myself from being surrounded by happiness, friends and positivity. What was more scary was realising that i had stopped doing a lot of th