What kind of momma will i be?
"The strongest lesson I can teach my son is the same lesson I teach my daughter: how to be who he wishes to be for himself. And the best way I can do this is to be who I am and hope that he will learn from this not how to be me, which is not possible, but how to be himself. And this means how to move to that voice from within himself, rather than to those raucous, persuasive, or threatening voices from outside, pressuring him to be what the world wants him to be." - Audre Lorde , Caribbean-American writer, womanist and civil rights activist "What kind of momma will i be?", I ask myself. I ask myself that question quite a lot of times- i ask that question when i am shopping, i ask that question when i am walking, i ask that question when i am writing, i ask that question when i am cooking...i keep on asking that question till my mind and heart is distracted with the most mundane things. I grew up in a violent home- it was violent as violent could be (